Traits In Men That Attract Women And How They Can Strengthen Your Relationship

As men, we all know the traits in women that we find attractive but many of us lack a complete understanding about the masculine traits that turn on women.

We sort of know that being tall, athletic, and good looking are attractive traits. However, many guys falsely believe that it’s all about physical attributes. We tend to assume that like us, women place a lot of importance on ‘looks’.

This assumption is a mistake. While women do respond to physical attractiveness, behavioral attributes are also a big turn on for them.

It turns out that these behaviors are the same ones that we find admirable in other men. Things like confidence, assertiveness, independence, adventurousness, energy, daring, strength of character, and healthy self esteem, among many others.

These are the masculine qualities that often result in success in life and in achieving high social status. While we as men greatly value and admire these qualities, women are positively turned on by their presence in a man. These behaviors trigger an attraction mechanism in them that they often refer to as ‘chemistry’.

Why is this? The answer is that it has been ‘wired into them’ by evolution for the sole purpose of propagating our species. Women are naturally drawn (either consciously or unconsciously) to men who can be a good provider for her children. Thus they are attracted to strong, vigorous men, who exhibit the potential to achieve high social status.

It’s obvious why strength and vigor are useful in providing for your family. High social status is important as well, because it gives one access to community resources that aren’t available to individuals of low status. Thus the high status person is more ‘well off’.

So you don’t have to look like Adonis or Hercules to be attractive. Just ‘act like a man’. This is useful to know if you’re interested in attracting women, but what if you already have a relationship going?

The answer to this is that being attractive to your mate can only help the long term stability of your relationship. If your wife or girlfriend stopped taking care of herself and gained 80 pounds, you may not find her attractive anymore. If you can lose interest in her, she can certainly lose interest in you. Everything requires maintenance, even relationships.

If you are lacking (none of us are perfect) some of these ‘manly’ qualities, this is a great opportunity to surprise her. Some unpredictability in your behavior will keep her interested in you.

So if you suddenly behave with greater confidence or became a bit more adventurous, she will become intrigued. This is always good. If you mix in a little romance into your relationship, it’s even better.

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