The Stages Of A Relationship – What To Expect In The Times Ahead

If you’ve just met someone and the chemistry is very strong, you’re probably thoroughly infatuated with this person.

Most people in this situation will not be thinking about the different stages of a relationship that most couples go through.

However, a good understanding of the stages of a relationship will allow you to know where you are right now and what to expect in the future.

The first stage of a relationship is intensely exciting. You’re swept up in the excitement and romance of it all and life couldn’t get any better. Sexual attraction is strong and the chemistry of bonding has flooded your brain.

Differences are unimportant during the first stage. If anything, you may even find these differences endearing.

You’re more focused on getting to know one another and sharing your lives together. This is known as the romantic or honeymoon stage. Like anything that is fresh and new, the budding relationship is fun, exciting, and adventurous.

The next stage typically makes or breaks a relationship. It’s called the reality stage when the newness wears off and you start to realize who this other person really is.

The differences between you become more apparent and take on greater importance. Both persons in the relationship start to notice that the other is failing to meet many of their needs.

The ‘reality’ of the relationship can be a let down because many of your expectations haven’t been met. In addition, the newness and the activity level of the first stage have also dropped off. This further contributes to the feeling of being let down.

It is important during this stage to step back and realize that people are only human. No one can be the perfect mate. You already know that you’re flawed, so why find fault in your partner’s flaws?

Understanding and honest communication is important. You must also understand that any attempt at molding or changing your partner into your perfect mate will fail. This very often leads to a break up.

If you and your partner can make it through this stage intact, then your chances of having a long lasting relationship have greatly improved.

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