A break up has to be one of the most devastating events that you can go through. Try not to worry too much, because if you’re following a good plan, you have a very good chance at winning her back.
T W Jackson’s guide, The Magic Of Making Up System sets you up with a plan. It is a comprehensive and solid manual about how to get your girl back and will guide you through the whole process from beginning to end. Because timing is everything, a schedule is given that outlines when a particular step needs to be done.
What’s most impressive is how extensive and practical the information is. Very few contingencies are left unturned. For example, how to get your ex to meet with you for the first time is covered in great detail. Questions such as: how is it done, exactly what you will say to her, when should you say it, what to do if she will not talk to you, are all discussed.
The Magic Of Making Up System gives these “what ifs” a lot of attention. Because of its thoroughness in covering your bases, it’s something of a long read. But the idea here is not to skim it but to take action by following it one step at a time.
Here is how it is laid out:
First, there is a section that gets you through the understanding stage. You will discover the core reasons why lovers separate. Without understanding these “love principles” you’ll be completely in the dark.
Next, you will work on “getting your head on straight”. You can not attract someone back when you’re feeling needy, depressed or angry. This section will deal with how to heal your emotional wounds. Things that most people do that you absolutely must avoid will be covered here.
Then, you will be shown how to assess your relationship. You need to understand the particular difficulties between you and your lover. Knowing this decides whether your relationship is worth fighting for.
Finally you will work the plan. This is the step by step strategy that is filled with proven tactics (3 of which are described below) that deal with all sorts of contingencies. There is one weakness here…you must take action on this information. Nothing can happen, unless you act. Otherwise, failure is guaranteed.
Tactics for coping with the challenges of winning her back are provided. Four of the most notable ones are:
The Fast Forward Technique
This is a 5 step process that’s repeated 2 or 3 times a day. It enables you to “shift forward” past the psychological pain of breaking up.
The Instant Reconnect Technique
This is a very clever psychological tactic that is simple to do. It’s a subtle way of triggering your partners subconscious into a kind of deja vu state…her subconscious relives the good times of your relationship. One thing that I can personally say about this one is that if someone used this on me and I later found out about it, I would definitely feel manipulated. Also, when I first heard about what it could do, it seemed like a ridiculous claim. But when I learned about how it was done, my reaction was “yep, I should’ve thought of that myself”. It’s so dead simple and obvious, that it’s almost boring. Never-the-less, it can be a very powerful and sneaky form of manipulation.
The Clean Slate Method
As the name implies, it’s a formula for wiping the slate clean so that you can give the relationship a new, fresh start. Unlike, the instant reconnect technique, it’s not a simple tactic. It requires that you develop a certain mind-set that some people will never achieve in their lifetime. Many adults are little more than children walking about in adult bodies. It’s surprising how so much of our defensive behavior revolves around “keeping the score even” and about “being in the right”. I have to say that this method can also be used in dealing with other aspects of our lives beyond simply winning your ex back. This one is profound and if one masters it, one becomes a better person, a true adult.
Second Chance Letter
With the abundance of practical advice, it’s very easy to overlook this bonus download of about 20 pages. This bonus explains how to write a “second chance letter” that can change her mind about leaving you. Included is a pre-written letter that you can use as is, or you can rewrite it in your own words if you so choose. A lot of psychology is woven into this letter, so be sure to check it out.
The Magic Of Making Up System is for the long term. There are no quick fixes that eventually backfire. These breakthrough methods are meant to bring lasting results to your relationship.
Wishing you the very best of luck.
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