Most guys realize that being masculine really turns on women. They may work out hard to get a chiseled body and often wear clothing styles that look very macho. So far, so good but they are overlooking something else that’s really effective in holding a woman’s interest.
This is having a skill-set called being romantic. Women can’t resist it and the movies of Hollywood have been telling us this for years. Some tips to help you get started:
1.) Do something completely unexpected. Women love to be surprised. The thing about surprises is that you’re doing something that you normally wouldn’t do.
It may mean getting out of your comfort zone some. If you are the stay-at-home type then try spending the evening (or weekend) on a well thought out romantic excursion. Planning in advance is important because without one, you will just fall back on old routines and habits.
Doing the same old stuff is not the definition of a surprise. There’s nothing more unromantic than asking her: “Well? what do you want to do now?”
If you’re the pragmatic, unromantic type, this will seem very difficult to do. However, you have a major advantage over the experienced Don Juan types: any romantic gesture coming from you will be huge to her because it’s the last thing that she expects from you. The element of surprise is in your favor.
2.) If she’s had a very stressful work week, then get up early on Saturday morning and prepare her favorite breakfast. Bring it to her bedside on a fancy tray for breakfast in bed. Depending on how stressed out she is, you may want to allow her some quiet time for reading a favorite magazine or book.
3.) A simple fireplace has great potential for a romantic evening especially in the winter. A cheery fire along with champagne, some wine, a comfy love seat, and dimmed lights will produce the ideal ambiance for romance. This works even better if you’re at a getaway such as a skiing lodge, a log cabin, or a high-class hotel.
4.) When it comes to romance, you don’t always have to hit a home run. Grand and noble gestures certainly work but can be hard to keep up every day. This is where frequent small gestures come into play.
Women value the small gestures and the big ones about the same. So keep up with the compliments, kisses, hugs, touching and acts of appreciation.
5.) Routines are essential for finishing off the every day chores effectively. But they are predictable and boring and this kills romance. Try shaking up the usual mechanical routines and bring her some roses or cook a candle light dinner. Anything that’s new or different creates arousal and excitement.
6.) Centuries ago, love letters and love poetry were an art form. They’re unfashionable now, but old fashioned and romance seem to equate. Get a book of love poetry, pick one poem and alter it so that she’ll think that you wrote it. Place it inside of a box of expensive chocolates and have it gift wrapped.
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