Think that your private thoughts have no effect on your partner? That if you keep them to yourself, no one will be the wiser?

Well think again. While it’s true that the odd stray thought stays private, a recurring thought or feeling about your partner will impact both her and you as a couple.

Recurring thoughts eventually become a belief or an attitude. With enough time, that belief or attitude will show itself in your behavior and in your words.

It can’t be helped because it’s inevitable. You may be able to contain it for now, but one day, it will leak out.

It only takes some time and a stressful moment to cause you to blurt it out.

Even if you never say anything to her about it, she will pick up on it through your behavior and your actions. Trust me, there are a million and one subtle ways for your feelings or attitude about someone to leak out.
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We all have a good understanding about what teamwork is. About why the individual subordinates his selfish desires for the sake of the team.

A coordinated group of people can accomplish so much more than one individual can.

Without cooperation, our species would have gone extinct long ago.

We understand the necessity of teamwork in sports, in the military, in business, and in our jobs. In spite of this, many of us fail to see that our relationships with the opposite sex also require teamwork.
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