Comments on: Overcoming Relationship Breakup – 4 Steps To Stop The Pain And Get On With Your Life http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/overcoming-relationship-breakup-4-steps-to-stop-the-pain-and-get-on-with-your-life How to get your girl back - Advice and a strategy Tue, 24 Apr 2012 14:25:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Marc http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/overcoming-relationship-breakup-4-steps-to-stop-the-pain-and-get-on-with-your-life#comment-5104 Marc Tue, 24 Apr 2012 14:25:59 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=11#comment-5104 @<a href="#comment-5102" rel="nofollow">Serena</a>: Sometimes anger can help in overcoming the pain of breakup if it is properly channeled. You can use it to prove to yourself that you can do just fine without him. When you get over him, the pain and anger will fade. @Serena: Sometimes anger can help in overcoming the pain of breakup if it is properly channeled. You can use it to prove to yourself that you can do just fine without him. When you get over him, the pain and anger will fade.

]]> By: Serena http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/overcoming-relationship-breakup-4-steps-to-stop-the-pain-and-get-on-with-your-life#comment-5102 Serena Tue, 24 Apr 2012 03:30:24 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=11#comment-5102 hi, i had a brealup a while go. then a recent one today. it was a long distane relationship. my x called me a bitch. ive been crying for days and trying to still get over it but its hard. im in a lot of pain. im in pieces. he has completely destroyed me, im single now but it j\wasnt meant to be neither was the other one which was ages ago. my x called me horrible names. then a while later he says he is sory for everything and he wants to be friends. i treated him right, i was a little fiesty at one stage but he was pissing me off and i just cant believe he left me without saying goodbye. he couldnt even tell me face to face. hi, i had a brealup a while go. then a recent one today. it was a long distane relationship. my x called me a bitch. ive been crying for days and trying to still get over it but its hard. im in a lot of pain. im in pieces. he has completely destroyed me, im single now but it j\wasnt meant to be neither was the other one which was ages ago. my x called me horrible names. then a while later he says he is sory for everything and he wants to be friends. i treated him right, i was a little fiesty at one stage but he was pissing me off and i just cant believe he left me without saying goodbye. he couldnt even tell me face to face.

]]> By: mhae http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/overcoming-relationship-breakup-4-steps-to-stop-the-pain-and-get-on-with-your-life#comment-4807 mhae Sun, 19 Feb 2012 10:53:50 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=11#comment-4807 it's very hard for me to breaking up with him...I try but I can't.. I really2 love him so much... it’s very hard for me to breaking up with him…I try but I can’t..
I really2 love him so much…

]]> By: Lymo http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/overcoming-relationship-breakup-4-steps-to-stop-the-pain-and-get-on-with-your-life#comment-4803 Lymo Sat, 18 Feb 2012 18:44:35 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=11#comment-4803 My boyfriend breakup with me cause i love going out,drinking(i dont drink to get naughty two- three bottles)and cell number being busy when he call.I talk to him that i'll quit for him not leave but he refuse.its now amonth since we breakup have trying talk to him,he told me he moving on with new girl.it hurting me so much.will he ever come back?,and also i dont want to have hope where is no hope! My boyfriend breakup with me cause i love going out,drinking(i dont drink to get naughty two- three bottles)and cell number being busy when he call.I talk to him that i’ll quit for him not leave but he refuse.its now amonth since we breakup have trying talk to him,he told me he moving on with new girl.it hurting me so much.will he ever come back?,and also i dont want to have hope where is no hope!

]]> By: Marc http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/overcoming-relationship-breakup-4-steps-to-stop-the-pain-and-get-on-with-your-life#comment-3425 Marc Sun, 29 May 2011 13:28:28 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=11#comment-3425 Hi Merv - Sorry to hear that. She's had a lot of history with her ex. Because of this and because she is the mother of his children, there are strong emotional bonds in place. It is very hard for a newcomer to compete against that. It's similar to how you would react to an old and dear friend as compared to a new friend or acquaintance. Hi Merv – Sorry to hear that. She’s had a lot of history with her ex. Because of this and because she is the mother of his children, there are strong emotional bonds in place. It is very hard for a newcomer to compete against that. It’s similar to how you would react to an old and dear friend as compared to a new friend or acquaintance.

]]> By: Merv http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/overcoming-relationship-breakup-4-steps-to-stop-the-pain-and-get-on-with-your-life#comment-3422 Merv Sat, 28 May 2011 23:01:27 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=11#comment-3422 I have a unique situation I fell in love with a woman and she said she was in love with me and I was her everything and her better half problem was that she has kids with ex's and even though she says all that to me I went away for a while cause she wouldn't put me first above the two ex's so I moved away she was all broken up and stayed in contact with me and eventually said she wanted to marry me upon moving back she cheated on me with one of the ex's even though she still talked to me and told me she loved me a big thing happened in her life and when I found out I said things I didn't mean and tried for the next few months to convince her I only said the mean things cause she said she would never leave me for an ex and finding out she did then when things seemed to be going ok she gets back together with her other ex why do people play games with people that are nothing but good to them?? I have a unique situation I fell in love with a woman and she said she was in love with me and I was her everything and her better half problem was that she has kids with ex’s and even though she says all that to me I went away for a while cause she wouldn’t put me first above the two ex’s so I moved away she was all broken up and stayed in contact with me and eventually said she wanted to marry me upon moving back she cheated on me with one of the ex’s even though she still talked to me and told me she loved me a big thing happened in her life and when I found out I said things I didn’t mean and tried for the next few months to convince her I only said the mean things cause she said she would never leave me for an ex and finding out she did then when things seemed to be going ok she gets back together with her other ex why do people play games with people that are nothing but good to them??

]]> By: Marc http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/overcoming-relationship-breakup-4-steps-to-stop-the-pain-and-get-on-with-your-life#comment-3411 Marc Wed, 25 May 2011 11:50:43 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=11#comment-3411 Without knowing either of you I can only suggest some generalities such as acting in a way that is more sensitive and empathetic to her. If you aren't a good listener (as most men aren't) become one. Listen and try to really care about what she is saying or feeling. People have a tendency to reciprocate - If she knows that you trust her through your actions she will be more inclined to reciprocate and trust you. Trusting people tend to be trusted. You should not talk about these actions to her (because she may discount them), you should just do them. This will be a long term change in your habits and over time she will notice this and respond. Habits are extremely hard to change and most people wouldn't be able to carry out what I have just suggested over the long term. As I've said before, regaining trust will take time. Also, she can't be pressured or forced into trusting you. Regaining her trust is a waste of time if further deceit occurs in the future. Good luck. Without knowing either of you I can only suggest some generalities such as acting in a way that is more sensitive and empathetic to her. If you aren’t a good listener (as most men aren’t) become one. Listen and try to really care about what she is saying or feeling. People have a tendency to reciprocate – If she knows that you trust her through your actions she will be more inclined to reciprocate and trust you. Trusting people tend to be trusted. You should not talk about these actions to her (because she may discount them), you should just do them. This will be a long term change in your habits and over time she will notice this and respond. Habits are extremely hard to change and most people wouldn’t be able to carry out what I have just suggested over the long term. As I’ve said before, regaining trust will take time. Also, she can’t be pressured or forced into trusting you.

Regaining her trust is a waste of time if further deceit occurs in the future. Good luck.

]]> By: Dragon http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/overcoming-relationship-breakup-4-steps-to-stop-the-pain-and-get-on-with-your-life#comment-3409 Dragon Tue, 24 May 2011 16:31:12 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=11#comment-3409 What can i do to show her that she can trust me again & it won't happen again. My birthday is in 20 days & she wants to spend it with me & it feels like old times nearly but without the trust. What can i do to show her that she can trust me again & it won’t happen again. My birthday is in 20 days & she wants to spend it with me & it feels like old times nearly but without the trust.

]]> By: Marc http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/overcoming-relationship-breakup-4-steps-to-stop-the-pain-and-get-on-with-your-life#comment-3405 Marc Sun, 22 May 2011 11:52:30 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=11#comment-3405 Dragon - Trust is very easy to lose and hard to get back again. It will take time and you will have to give her a sincere apology where you accept the blame. Even if your cover up seemed like a reasonable thing to do, don't try to convince her of that because it will only weaken your apology. Sincerity is very important when making an apology. Also, actions mean more than words do, so you should find some way to show her that you can be trusted again. If you do regain her trust, it will be harder to keep because she will be less forgiving the next time. Dragon – Trust is very easy to lose and hard to get back again. It will take time and you will have to give her a sincere apology where you accept the blame. Even if your cover up seemed like a reasonable thing to do, don’t try to convince her of that because it will only weaken your apology. Sincerity is very important when making an apology. Also, actions mean more than words do, so you should find some way to show her that you can be trusted again. If you do regain her trust, it will be harder to keep because she will be less forgiving the next time.

]]> By: Dragon http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/overcoming-relationship-breakup-4-steps-to-stop-the-pain-and-get-on-with-your-life#comment-3402 Dragon Sat, 21 May 2011 01:24:07 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=11#comment-3402 Why does a girl get mad at you when your dishonest with her? the reason why i was dishonest with her is because i lost a girlfriend that i was going to marry 9 years ago & everything was going good till i seen a wreck and on the 2cd & 3rd year our relationship went down hill & i was also made up stuff to cover up what i did not want to tell her. we also did things like ur suppost to be doing when ur married & not dating. we go to church & it's like i lost myself with her. i kept making mistakes. how would i fix this relationship? i wanna know or if the things you say on here will work Why does a girl get mad at you when your dishonest with her? the reason why i was dishonest with her is because i lost a girlfriend that i was going to marry 9 years ago & everything was going good till i seen a wreck and on the 2cd & 3rd year our relationship went down hill & i was also made up stuff to cover up what i did not want to tell her. we also did things like ur suppost to be doing when ur married & not dating. we go to church & it’s like i lost myself with her. i kept making mistakes. how would i fix this relationship? i wanna know or if the things you say on here will work

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