How To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Want You Back

If you are thinking about getting on your knees and expressing your undying love and need for her – Don’t do it. Neediness only works for kids and puppies.

Leave this strategy to the actors in bad movies. Women are attracted to a number of qualities in men. Weakness and neediness is not one of them.

In our culture, men are supposed to be powerful and self-assured. They’re the doers, and are expected to go out into the world and to make it their own.

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Women expect and are attracted by this. However, a great deal has been harped over sensitivity in men.

Sensitivity will make a man more attractive but only when he has strength and self-assurance. Even so, clingy behavior, crying, and neediness will make you seem wimpy. These expressions of despair and panic should not be confused with sensitivity. It will destroy your worth to her as a man.

Begin a self improvement program. This entails improvement on both the inside and the outside. It’s time to whiten up your teeth, lose a little weight, and fix up whatever is needed to become more appealing. This is also the time to acknowledge and correct personal faults that contributed to the breakup.

Two important things women want in a man:

Confidence. Confidence is the by product of strength. When you have strength of mind, body, and spirit, you can’t help but be confident. Successful people have it. Leaders have it. Women are turned on by and are attracted to confidence because it is a masculine sign of strength.
Honesty. Healthy relationships are impossible without trust. If you lie, cheat, or are otherwise dishonest, you will lose your credibility and her trust. Once trust is lost it is very difficult to get back and if you can get some of it back, it won’t be total trust. Losing a person’s trust is like crumpling up a sheet of paper. You can try to smooth it out again but it won’t be the same sheet of paper.

Part of this self improvement phase is maintaining an active life with your friends and interests. This will diminish any feelings of depression and give you the confidence that life is possible without your ex. Your ex will sense this relaxed confidence in you and will also notice your other improvements.

By being nice to her without letting her know that you want her back, a few things will happen. First, these improvements will arouse her curiosity. She will start seeing you in a new light. Because you appear to be doing well without her, she will know that you aren’t a “sure thing” anymore.

It’s human nature to desire that which is no longer ours. Now that you are all “new and shiny” and that you aren’t necessarily hers anymore, your ex girlfriend will want you back.

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