Comments on: Break Up Pain – How To Move Past A Painful Break Up http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/break-up-pain-how-to-move-past-a-painful-break-up How to get your girl back - Advice and a strategy Tue, 24 Apr 2012 14:25:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Marc http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/break-up-pain-how-to-move-past-a-painful-break-up#comment-5103 Marc Tue, 24 Apr 2012 13:14:05 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=60#comment-5103 @<a href="#comment-5100" rel="nofollow">kt</a>: Working on your independence is good. Time will also help. Try some of the suggestions above even if you don't feel like it. It will help. @kt: Working on your independence is good. Time will also help. Try some of the suggestions above even if you don’t feel like it. It will help.

]]> By: kt http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/break-up-pain-how-to-move-past-a-painful-break-up#comment-5100 kt Mon, 23 Apr 2012 21:24:22 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=60#comment-5100 me and my boyfriend of about 10 months just recently broke up after spring break. We had had some rough points along the way and almost called it quits in december but kept working through things because we cared so much. He ended things with me, saying that we were simply on different pages, and what he wanted/needed out of the relationship didn't make up with mine. It's a really tough situation for me because I live with his best friend (girl) and another one of my roommates has class with him..not exactly a clean breakup since he is still connected to my life. We exchanged some texts over the past few weeks but the last conversation ended with him saying I need to let go, and move on, and delete his # and facebook, etc. I'm just extremely lost and sad and cannot think about anything else other than this situation. I never really got the closure I needed because we ended things when I was away on vacation. I know that the timing for us is just not right, but I know that I will not get over him for a very long time, if ever. I know I need to let go of the past, but I am holding onto it for him. I want to work on myself and learn to be more independent, and hopefully reconnect with him one day. I know this is not the mindset I should have, but the thought of letting go completely seems near impossible. me and my boyfriend of about 10 months just recently broke up after spring break. We had had some rough points along the way and almost called it quits in december but kept working through things because we cared so much. He ended things with me, saying that we were simply on different pages, and what he wanted/needed out of the relationship didn’t make up with mine. It’s a really tough situation for me because I live with his best friend (girl) and another one of my roommates has class with him..not exactly a clean breakup since he is still connected to my life. We exchanged some texts over the past few weeks but the last conversation ended with him saying I need to let go, and move on, and delete his # and facebook, etc. I’m just extremely lost and sad and cannot think about anything else other than this situation. I never really got the closure I needed because we ended things when I was away on vacation. I know that the timing for us is just not right, but I know that I will not get over him for a very long time, if ever. I know I need to let go of the past, but I am holding onto it for him. I want to work on myself and learn to be more independent, and hopefully reconnect with him one day. I know this is not the mindset I should have, but the thought of letting go completely seems near impossible.

]]> By: mari http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/break-up-pain-how-to-move-past-a-painful-break-up#comment-5097 mari Mon, 23 Apr 2012 10:09:48 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=60#comment-5097 yeah right, reading some of your stories lessen the pain. no words can define how much it hurts after breakup. it's been 1 month when my ex boyfriend left me. after that no conversation at all. it really hurts but i have to let him go. moving on process is not that easy. yeah right, reading some of your stories lessen the pain. no words can define how much it hurts after breakup. it’s been 1 month when my ex boyfriend left me. after that no conversation at all. it really hurts but i have to let him go. moving on process is not that easy.

]]> By: cheska http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/break-up-pain-how-to-move-past-a-painful-break-up#comment-5096 cheska Mon, 23 Apr 2012 07:49:34 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=60#comment-5096 @<a href="#comment-5023" rel="nofollow">dimple</a>: time will heal all wounds that you feel...that's all what i can say because i also felt that pain and it's really hard to forget someone you don't really want to forget. Just don't stay alone in your room and keep in touch with your family and friends,Socialize and let time heal the wound in your heart. Someone out there will love you,the way you wanted to. @dimple: time will heal all wounds that you feel…that’s all what i can say because i also felt that pain and it’s really hard to forget someone you don’t really want to forget. Just don’t stay alone in your room and keep in touch with your family and friends,Socialize and let time heal the wound in your heart. Someone out there will love you,the way you wanted to.

]]> By: cheska http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/break-up-pain-how-to-move-past-a-painful-break-up#comment-5095 cheska Mon, 23 Apr 2012 07:38:47 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=60#comment-5095 they said that if you loved a person, you will definitely be happy if you will see him happy...but, that was not what i feel right now. i feel so sad that after what we've been through he can already smile and be happy together with someone else after the 2 years that we've been together, i feel that i am not that important to him after all those years... they said that if you loved a person, you will definitely be happy if you will see him happy…but, that was not what i feel right now. i feel so sad that after what we’ve been through he can already smile and be happy together with someone else after the 2 years that we’ve been together, i feel that i am not that important to him after all those years…

]]> By: cheska http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/break-up-pain-how-to-move-past-a-painful-break-up#comment-5094 cheska Mon, 23 Apr 2012 06:58:49 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=60#comment-5094 @<a href="#comment-5065" rel="nofollow">jill</a>: tnx. i've already done that thing and now i am only focusing myself to my studies and to my family. I've already realized that my feelings for him will be going nowhere so i should focus on what matters now to me and that is my studies. @jill: tnx. i’ve already done that thing and now i am only focusing myself to my studies and to my family. I’ve already realized that my feelings for him will be going nowhere so i should focus on what matters now to me and that is my studies.

]]> By: Dj http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/break-up-pain-how-to-move-past-a-painful-break-up#comment-5066 Dj Tue, 17 Apr 2012 11:12:21 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=60#comment-5066 We spent 7 1/2 years together and now he wants to breakup and move out into his own place. I have a 13 year old son and I don't know how this will affect him. It hurts because I don't understand why. We were suppose to get married now he is moving on. Saying he wants to try something different and see if the grass is greener. We spent 7 1/2 years together and now he wants to breakup and move out into his own place. I have a 13 year old son and I don’t know how this will affect him. It hurts because I don’t understand why. We were suppose to get married now he is moving on. Saying he wants to try something different and see if the grass is greener.

]]> By: jill http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/break-up-pain-how-to-move-past-a-painful-break-up#comment-5065 jill Tue, 17 Apr 2012 02:38:29 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=60#comment-5065 @<a href="#comment-4999" rel="nofollow">cheska</a>: Maybe you should start by putting ur mates advice in your head that would help you out alot. :) @cheska:

Maybe you should start by putting ur mates advice in your head that would help you out alot. :)

]]> By: jill http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/break-up-pain-how-to-move-past-a-painful-break-up#comment-5064 jill Tue, 17 Apr 2012 02:35:25 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=60#comment-5064 I have just broken up with my bf and it hurts so much we had only been together for a year an a half, but im young and to me thats the longest relationship i have had i was his first love but he wasnt mine. The reason we broke up was because i invited a guy over to my house while he was away that he hates. I did it to make myself feel better as when he's drunk he's a total flirt and a idiot. Also when i started working he started to watch porn while i was at work and then isolating himself by playing xbox 24/7 and completly ignoring me. We also didnt spend new years together and i feel that he cheated on me during that time we wer'nt together or if not before. There is just no trust and a relationship is screwed if theres no trust. Its hard because i love him and part of me dose'nt want to move on but part of me dose. I have just broken up with my bf and it hurts so much we had only been together for a year an a half, but im young and to me thats the longest relationship i have had i was his first love but he wasnt mine. The reason we broke up was because i invited a guy over to my house while he was away that he hates. I did it to make myself feel better as when he’s drunk he’s a total flirt and a idiot. Also when i started working he started to watch porn while i was at work and then isolating himself by playing xbox 24/7 and completly ignoring me. We also didnt spend new years together and i feel that he cheated on me during that time we wer’nt together or if not before. There is just no trust and a relationship is screwed if theres no trust. Its hard because i love him and part of me dose’nt want to move on but part of me dose.

]]> By: dimple http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/break-up-pain-how-to-move-past-a-painful-break-up#comment-5023 dimple Mon, 09 Apr 2012 02:45:22 +0000 http://howtogetyourgirlback.org/?p=60#comment-5023 Im broken now :( i cant accept what had happen. i feel like alone. even if hes the one who breaking up ,I still want him. even if there is someone new in his life i still want him back. i dont know what to do. all the advices of my friends i did not put it to my mind . i dont know what happen to me. i want him back even if he hurts me sooo much. help :'( Im broken now :( i cant accept what had happen. i feel like alone. even if hes the one who breaking up ,I still want him. even if there is someone new in his life i still want him back. i dont know what to do. all the advices of my friends i did not put it to my mind . i dont know what happen to me. i want him back even if he hurts me sooo much. help :’(

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