If you saw your girlfriend in a bar flirting with and kissing someone, would this make you jealous?
Suppose she where holding hands with or embracing another man while walking in a park? Most people would feel instant jealousy under these instances. In both examples, the threat to your relationship is real. Feeling jealous is normal when your relationship is threatened.
Even in less threatening circumstances such as her day to day interactions with men at her job or her socializing with male friends, feeling uneasy is normal especially if you haven’t known your girlfriend for very long.
Being jealous about your girlfriend becomes a problem when you’ve known her for a long time and she has given you no reason for feeling this way.
If you exhibit any of the following symptoms, it’s time to admit you have a problem and do something about it:
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Long distance relationships (LDR) are a fact of life for a lot of people. The demands of a career, military service, going to college, a bad job market, and online dating services that bring together people living thousands of miles apart are some of the reasons for LDR’s.
Many couples don’t like them but these relationships can work and many have grown stronger as a result.
Contrary to popular opinion, long distance relationships are no more likely to fail than relationships between people living close together. If your relationship is on rocky grounds to start with, the distance between you isn’t going to matter. In fact, living near someone you weren’t meant to be with just increases the opportunities for more conflict. When you put an argumentative couple in the same room, you get more arguments.
Another common concern has to do with infidelity. The risk of cheating has little to do with distance and time apart. It has everything to do with the quality of the people and the relationship. Opportunity doesn’t guarantee that cheating will happen anymore than the opportunity to shop lift causes everyone to steal. If your partner is inclined to cheat, it will happen regardless of the distance.
LDR’s require trust, compatibility with your partner, and know-how to make them succeed.
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If handled in the right way, most breakups don’t have to be final. The fact is, couples are getting back together all the time.
The bad news is that many breakups remain permanent. Often because they were handled badly by one or both of the partners.
Because the heart often takes the driver’s seat in a break up, people will go with their gut instincts.
This makes them do things that worsen the situation. Here are five tips to get you started on the right track.
1.) Control Your Anger
When anger takes hold, it is very hard to contain especially when your partner is telling you it’s all your fault. Venting your anger or trying to prove that your partner is wrong will make the break up a very messy affair. You don’t want to reinforce her decision to leave you by bringing on more bad feelings. Don’t give her more reasons for leaving you. Doing so will make it much harder to get your girl back.
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Some of our strongest memories are also painful ones. Often they involve fights with a spouse or a girlfriend over any of a number of issues. If fighting brings on so much pain, why do we continue to engage in them?
Chronic fighting doesn’t just happen to clueless couples who know nothing about resolving conflict. Sometimes there are wrong things about the relationship that invite constant bickering. Five of these are are discussed below:
1.) Incompatibility
No two people are alike so conflict is inevitable.
But the less compatible you are with your partner, the more differences you will have and these will always be a potential source of conflict. When two people are completely incompatible, the best that they can hope for is a relationship that is based 100 percent on compromise.
Some consider compromise to be a noble thing, but if your entire relationship and your life is nothing but a collection of compromises, it’s not much of a relationship or a life.
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